very simple...you always want what someone else has...when you can have it, you don't want it anymore...its the very sad human condition...Why cant women make up their minds?
well, thinking back to ur title, i'm guessing that 1) you poss want her now.. or 2) that's the reason you broke up with your girlfriend.
-- if its 1) then this might be about you..
a) do u poss just want to see her more often now?
b) did u get to hang out with her when u had your girlfriend? maybe she's a little hurt now because you're making time for her when she's 'second best'
c) she doesn't like you anymore.. and you can't really handle that now
-- if its 2) then she probably wants nothing to do with you either because she's a little scared
a) of your ex -- you broke up with her for your friend.....
b) of how dramatically you took her liking you -- if she likes you, she might be a little stunned, or shy, or nervous
c) she didn't really like you, but you broke up with your girlfriend for her and she doesn't know how to handle that yet.
just think of each of these with you and her in mind.. i hope that one of them clicks!
wouldn't it be nice to just BEE in the other's mind to figure this all out?
you might want to talk to her about ALLL of what i mentioned, to be sure you're right and to get you two back as best buds!
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obviously she greedy, and wants you to be there for her, but doesn't exactly WANT you. i say talk to her, and get another girlfriend. she's interferring in your love life, and thats unacceptable. unless she wants to be with you, forget her.
or the thing is, she might be a little shy. maybe ask her out. if she says yes, there you go. problem solved. but if she says no, think about hhow important she may be to you. is she worth it?
O buddy plz this girl really seemed to like... I mean she totally had it out for you and when things went sour with the girl you were with your friend didnt see the interest or challenge in you anymore.
The problem wasnt that she was just gonna get with you after you broke up with the girl , the problem was that she didn't want to feel like a ';rebound chick'; aka ';second choice';.
Just let her know your around and the offer to be her boo iz still open (that is if you still like her like that) ...but in the mean time do something for her that she wouldnt expect.
GOOD LUCK HOMEY!
It sounds to me like she was jealous because you were with someone else. Once you were available again she realized she did not have anything to worry about and she could keep stringing you along. She will come around again once you get in another relationship. Some girls are just like that. My advice just come straight out and tell her I like you as a friend but that is all that i want it to be because if not there will always be some drama.
possible reasons:
1. You spoiled this friend too much that she think she can play with your feelings yet you still stick to her - proof is you chose her over a gf
2. She is nuts - she needs professional help
BTW, not all women are like her. You were just unlucky to get involved with such a freak and she is so lucky to have you who really cared
man i feel u on this. us men have been scratching our heads for about a million years on this one. I would say from experience she just wanted something when she couldnt have it. It's like she only wants to deal with you when its convenient for her, and thats not a friend
As a girl, I've done this before, and yes, it's a regretful thing.
We do it because when we can't have someone, it makes them more attractive to us. And when we can get someone, we don't want them because it's not a challenge.
Yes, women are difficult, I know.
she is playing games with you, or she can't decide if she wants to be just friends or more...
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Girls do change their minds often because they over think and over analyze everything.
ok first of all don't make generalizations, and second, because she wants what she can't have.
the girl is very confused it happens a lotespeciallyy if she is still young or in high school it happens alot just have to let it go n move on iv been there
girls like challenges just like guys do. She seems like she just playing games so I really wouldn't focus on her ... good luck
Folks always want what they can't have. When you're taken you seem more appealing. Lose the girlfriend, lose the appeal. I think it's kinda twisted but that's how some people are.
She was just jealous.
She only wants you when some one else does. All that is is drama. Dont stress it, its a waste of time.
she's china, and ur tibet: She doesn't want you until there's the risk of you being taken away.
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